The title of this story isn’t exactly correct. The man in question wasn’t careless in his relationships with the women in his life in the sense that he had a series of anonymous affairs. No, rather, he carefully planned and took great pains to create the lives he lived with four different women over the course of over forty years. With these four women, the man had at least 13 children. At least, because those are only the relationships we know about.
The man, an American, traveled frequently for business. He was a consultant for several major airlines in the period after World War 2, and those travels took him often to Europe, specifically Germany. It was there that the American kept three of his “families” each made up of an adoring woman and her children. The children in one of the families knew him only as “Mr. Kent,” and he would visit them two to three times every year. On each visit, he would shower them with gifts and affection. Never, however, did the children learn that this man was actually their mother’s lover and their own father. The man had met their mother when he was in his 50s and she was only 31.
Another “family” the man had was with the sister of the first woman. Apparently, the two women never realized that the father of their children was actually the same man. This second family gave him two children. Again, the children had no idea that the tall, lanky American who came and went throughout the years was their father.
The third German family the man created was with his German secretary and translator. This woman birthed a son and daughter by the American. The same scenario played out with that group as well–gifts, rare visits, no acknowledgement of parentage.
Realize, please, that this man was happily married back in the United States. His American family had six children, although one of the children had died in infancy. The man’s wife never betrayed that she knew anything about her husband’s proclivities while he was alive. From all outward appearances, the couple appeared happy and content. None of the man’s friends suspected that he lived, well, not a double life, exactly, but more of a quadruple life. Years later, after finding out about the other siblings and the other women, one of the man’s children from his relationship with his wife bitterly commented that the complications and logistics of keeping at least four separate families must have been exhausting to her father.
This “busy” American man died in 1974. He reached out to each of the three German families shortly before his death, and he asked them to keep his involvement with them a secret. They did so–for over two more decades. When some of the children from these relationships finally discovered and then revealed who their father was, they said they weren’t looking for money. Rather, they only wanted simple acknowledgement.
And that’s how the world found out about the other families of that most famous of aviators, Charles Lindbergh.

