This blog has written several stories about the American Civil War, and several of those stories have pertained to the surrender of the Confederate Army of Northern Virginia to the Union’s Army of the Potomac in April of 1865. General Lee meet General Grant in the parlor of Elmer McLean’s house at the crossroads of Appomattox in Virginia, and the two men signed the papers that effectively ended that bloody conflict.
Here is another story about that momentous event.
While we’ve talked some about the two commanders in the room that day, we haven’t really looked at the others who were there in Elmer McLean’s parlor early that afternoon in April. Colonel Charles Marshall, a relative of both the former Supreme Court Chief Justice John Marshall and of General George Marshall of World War 2 fame, accompanied Lee as his military secretary and aide de camp. The only other person from the Confederate side to join Lee and Marshall that day was a private, one Joshua O. Johns, who stayed outside and held the reins of Lee’s and Marshall’s horses while the two officers conducted the end of the war inside the house. While Marshall goes on to be one of the founders of the “Lost Cause” narrative of the southern rebellion against the United States, history seems to have lost what happend to that third member of the Confederate Army at Appomattox that day.
It is when you attempt to detail who accompanied Grant to the surrender meeting that things get a little tricky. You see, accounts vary as to the exact number of Union officers who were in McLean’s parlor that afternoon. Most of Grant’s staff were there–Grant showed up late, characteristically, by the way–and were eager to see this historic event. Paintings made of the event much, much later, depict as many as 12 members of Grant’s staff and other officers present (including Robert Lincoln, the President’s son, who was on Grant’s staff). As some of those present recalled the scene in later years, their stories changed, as eyewitness accounts often do, and they sometimes added or subtracted a person here and there as they told their stories.
We know for sure that Grant’s aide, Colonel (breveted Brigadier General) Ely S. Parker was there, because it was Parker who wrote out the terms of the surrender for Grant and Lee to sign. Parker had been with Grant through much of the war; the two men were friends before it, and it was Grant who had taken Parker on as an engineer on his staff in 1863 during the Vicksburg campaign, giving Parker the rank of Captain.
Interestingly, Parker had tried to volunteer for the war, but he was refused to join because, ironically, he was not officially a citizen of the United States despite having been born in New York State. That didn’t matter to Grant, who recognized the talent the 35 year old man had, and, besides, Grant’s army was in desperate need of good engineers. Parker eventually made his way onto Grant’s personal staff, becoming the General’s adjutant and military secretary, the same role that Marshall performed for Lee. In fact, almost all correspondence from Grant during the Civil War from 1863 onward came from Parker’s pen.
Colonel Parker wrote out the terms in his clear hand, presented the copies to both men, and the two leaders signed them. The entire interaction between the two generals took less than 45 minutes. Lee recognized who and what Colonel Parker was, and, before he left McLean’s room, he stretched out his ungloved hand to the man.
“I’m glad to see one real American here,” Lee said to Parker.
Parker took the famous man’s hand and shook it. Realizing that the war was now over, Colonel Ely S. Parker, eyewitness to one of the most important events in Amerian History, and born with the name Hasanoanda on the Seneca Native American reservation and therefore not an official citizen of the United States at the time despite having fought for that country for the past few years, gave General Robert E. Lee the perfect reply.
“We are all Americans now, General.”









